Many of us were taught that enlisting the help of “friends” in the bedroom—like lube, sex toys, etc.—was something to be frowned upon. This negative narrative made us believe using sexual wellness products was a sign of bad sex. But over the last few years, that narrative’s been changing. After all, if we smoke, drink alcohol or use CBD to enhance things, why shouldn’t we use things that can enhance our pleasure in the bedroom, too?
It’s 2024, and sexual wellness products have entered the chat. And in the words of Lizzo, “It’s about damn time.” It’s time to let go of preconceived notions and embrace the technologies and tools available to us in and outside of the bedroom.
Allow me to introduce to you 9 sexual wellness products that will transform your sex life. These are major game-changers and work for all genders. Keep scrolling to learn more.
9 Must-Have Sexual Wellness Products:
RASA
Adaptogenic Sex Tonic
A healthy libido is a sign of a healthy body, and they say you are what you eat. Of course, there’s no substitute for eating an overall balanced diet, getting the proper rest, and so on—but, on the days your libido needs a kickstart or you have a sexy date scheduled, Rasa’s Adaptogenic Sex Tonic is the perfect thing to sip in the A.M.
Formulated with ingredients like maca, ginger, cayenne, and cacao, this tonic acts as a natural aphrodisiac and opens up your body and heart for sex. Plus, a little goes a long way, so it’ll last you a long time.
FORIA
Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD
If there’s one thing you should believe me on, it’s that this oil works. It’s unlike anything on the market—it relaxes you down there so you’re ready for sex, gets you in the mood, and intensifies orgasms. The CBD in the formula acts as a natural relaxant, which helps get you in the mood; while the organic botanicals have an aphrodisiac effect. And together, they enhance everything.
This is made specifically for vulva owners to use alone or with a partner. So apply topically around the clitoris, inner labia, and inside the vagina, and allow anywhere from 5-30 minutes for it to take full effect.
COCONU
Hemp Infused Body Oil
It’s no secret that stress and tension can seriously inhibit libido, but Coconu’s Hemp Infused Body Oil can help with that. This all-natural lubricant is perfect for(e) play however you like.
I love applying this daily wherever I’m feeling sore or tight. This helps keep my body loose, relaxed, and ready for action. Likewise, this oil also doubles as lube, and the coconut oil and hemp infused formula makes for painless, lubricated pleasure all around.
Use code FLAWLESS15 for 15% off all Coconu products!
WOO MORE PLAY
Disco Stick – Vibez
Let’s have some fun this beat is sick, I wanna take a ride on your disco stick… yeah, you know the rest. Woo’s G-spot vibrator is built for intense internal stimulation. With a curved handle designed to target the G-spot, 7 speeds, rechargeable battery, and chic travel pouch, you’ll never have to disco alone again.
What’s more, this vibrator’s safe to use with Woo’s Coconut Love Oil or Shag Juice. And I don’t know about you, but lube is a non-negotiable for me during any kind of play. So the next time you can’t hop onto someone else’s disco stick, Woo’s got you covered.
MYSTERYVIBE
Tenuto 2
Because men or non-vulva owners need toys, too. MysteryVibe’s award-winning flexible, wearable vibrator helps penis owners get erect and stay that way. With a flexible design made to adapt to your body and penis as it changes shape, this vibrator pulses from penis to perineum.
But that’s not all. Tenuto 2 was also designed for simultaneous pleasure, so if you’re having sex with a vulva-owner, Tenuto 2 will also stimulate the clitoris and vulva at the same time. Can you say couples play?
PULSE
Touchless Warming System
If you’re looking for luxury, look no further than Pulse’s Warming System. This touchless oil dispenser perfectly warms up lube or massage oils for safe temperature play while looking sleek AF on your nightstand. Likewise, it also has 6 built-in lighting options, so you can easily create a nice ambiance and match the vibe you’re going for.
Furthermore, you also get 4 complimentary pods—either your choice of lubes or massage oils—with your purchase.
WOO MORE PLAY
Freshies
These pH balanced wipes are full of all-natural, loving ingredients for your vagine. Not only are they great for on-the-go or before getting it on, they’re also great for post-sex as well. Made with aloe vera extract, coconut water, organic cranberry and vanilla water, they can soothe irritation and inflammation (perfect for after sex, especially if you haven’t had it in a while), and cleanse and hydrate your vagina.
Personally, I love using these post-sex to clean everything up (after peeing, of course; the last thing I want is a UTI) and on my period. Periods can be messy and annoying AF, but these make cleanup so much easier.
ROSY
Personalized Sexual Wellness App
So many women feel shame around sex, and many know only the bare basics about intercourse. Which is why Dr. Lyndsey Harper created Rosy: a mobile app designed to help women improve their sexual wellbeing. It’s time to change the narrative around sex once and for all, and Rosy can help you feel more comfortable masturbating and being sexual, and show you how to love and appreciate your body.
Dr. Harper and the Rosy team know sex isn’t a one-size-fits-all, which is why sexual wellness should be unique to every individual. Rosy offers personalized sexual wellness plans, informative videos about the vagina and sexual education, a library filled with erotica, coaching sessions, and more.
NIXIT
24 Pack Condoms
Haven’t you heard? Safe sex is the best sex. But unlike other condoms out there, nixit’s prioritize vaginal health, so you don’t have to worry about getting a UTI from them.
What’s more, they also deliver a skin-to-skin sensation unlike any other and have a pure silicone lubrication to deliver friction-free sex. And to top it all off, the packaging is cute AF.
