Planning a wedding is no easy feat. Sure, it’s exciting and all, but juggling the big and small details—from booking the venue all the way down to finding the right hair and makeup artist—can be a lot for even the chillest person. Needless to say, it’s easy to forget one of the best parts of any nuptials during this madness. And that is, of course, the wedding night.
The truth is, your wedding night kicks off your life as newlyweds. And while you shouldn’t pressure yourself to make it perfect because that’ll add more stress, preparing for it ahead of time will amp up the excitement for this new chapter in your life together.
As a bride-to-be myself, I decided to find out how to do just that and start married life with a bang. Keep scrolling to learn the 7 secrets for the sexiest wedding night in the world that’ll help you start married life with a bang.
7 Secrets for the Sexiest Wedding Night:
1. Wear sexy lingerie
Buying new lingerie for your wedding night might sound cliché, but it’s a tried-and-true tradition for a reason. Regardless of how you normally feel about it, wearing something sexy to consummate your marriage will make it feel all the more special for both of you. Plus, you’ll feel beautiful, which will give you a major confidence boost during playtime.
The good news is that choosing the perfect lingerie doesn’t have to be stressful. Because sexual wellness brand Lovers has saved the day with their specially curated Bridal Collection. In gorgeous white and ice blue colorways, this size-inclusive collection has seven pieces that will make every bride feel their sexiest.
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Juliette Bridal Set
This 3-piece bra, garter belt, and panty set in sheer white lace is sure to make your spouse’s jaw drop.
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Indie Bridal Babydoll & G-String
Flowy and sheer white, this dreamy set just screams “romance.”
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Juliette Bridal Babydoll & G-String
Made of white satin, sheer lace, and mesh, this will hug you in all the right places.
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Lace Leg Garter
3 colors available.
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Priscilla Bridal Teddy
The sheer blue mesh of this lace thong teddy will have your beloved swooning.
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Valentine Lacey Babydoll
Available in 3 colors and sizes SM-4X, this will make you feel every inch of the blushing bride.
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Indie Bridal Lace Bustier & Thong Set
Your spouse won’t be able to resist you in this curve-hugging set.
2. Put up a “do not disturb” sign
If you’re spending your wedding night away from home, hang that “do not disturb” sign outside your door. Doing this will remind you where you are and what you’re doing there. Which in turn will build up the excitement and anticipation of what’s to come.
3. Set the vibe
Immersing your room in the right romantic vibe will make your wedding night even more magical. Scattered rose petals and kissing swan pillows are always a good idea, and fill the room with your favorite scent using candles or room sprays. This will awaken your sense of smell and, in turn, sensuality. Likewise, you can also create a special sexy playlist to use as background music throughout the night.
Similarly, don’t be afraid to enlist the help of some aphrodisiacs. They may not be magical sex potions, but sparking your senses and indulging will heighten arousal. Champagne and chocolate covered strawberries are classics you can’t go wrong with, but if there’s a specific food or beverage you and your partner love, have that ready to go as well.
4. Be adventurous
Your wedding night is the perfect time to get adventurous in the bedroom. This means trying out new sex positions, whether it’s in the shower, during oral sex, or through super intimate moves. Likewise, if there’s a kink or fantasy you’d like to explore, talk to your partner about it ahead of time to gauge their interest. Then, you can decide how to proceed. Doing this ahead of time will also be a form of foreplay for the wedding night as well since it’ll get you excited for what’s to come.
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Playful White Furry Cuffs
5. Take it slow
Chances are you’ll be riding high from adrenaline, which will naturally make you want to tear each other’s clothes off. While this can be sexy AF, it’s a good idea to try and savor the wedding night as much as you can. So, slow things down by unwinding with a romantic bath and engaging in long, sensuous foreplay. Likewise, be sure to keep a bottle of your favorite lube (or two) nearby that you can use as needed (like a sexy full-body massage).
6. Experiment with wedding sex toys
To further the adventurous sentiment, don’t be afraid to break out some dazzling toys for your big night and beyond. From a glittering dual massager to a flickering vibrator adorned with a Swavorski® crystal button, the Lovers Bridal Collection has all the travel-chic toys you could ever need.
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Lusty Luxurious Flickering Vibrator
Clitoral stimulation in a lipstick-shaped vibrator with a Swavorski® crystal button? Say no more.
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Double Vibe
This palm-sized bunny vibrator will pleasure all the erogenous zones and is discreet enough for travel.
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Mini Pleasures Kit
With a mini wand vibrator, metal dildo, pin, and cloth pouch, this splurge is worth the money.
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Blend Rabbit Vibrator
This rose gold vibe looks luxurious and delivers powerful blended orgasms.
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JOPEN Callie Vibrating Dual Massager
A white rabbit-style vibe with gold accents and a gemstone button will make you feel like the glamorous bride you are.
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Bullet Vibrator
With a whisper-quiet motor, place this against your pleasure points for precise stimulation during all play.
7. Relax and remove the pressure
Although it’s natural to want a flawless wedding and wedding night, removing that pressure is the best thing you can do yourself (and partner). Life happens, and while it’s nice to set the bar high, holding onto unrealistic expectations is only going to stress you out more. Plus, it’ll also make it harder for you to get in the mood and orgasm. Instead, relax and let go. No matter what happens, savor your wedding night as best you can, whatever that may look like to you and your new spouse.
