This Is Your Ideal Valentine’s Day Date, According to Your Zodiac Sign

Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that you either love or hate, and it’s easy to change your mind on how you feel about it depending on your relationship status. If you’re single, it often signifies an opportunity to hang out with your BFF’s and laugh at the V-Day obsessed couples, while being in a relationship can make it feel like the most romantic day of the year, a chance to get totally lovey-dovey and mushy with your S.O without being judged for it. However, regardless of your relationship status, there’s no denying that the traditional Valentine’s Day packed with flowers, chocolate, dinner, dessert, and a movie can feel a bit old and worn out. It may be time to spice things up a bit, which is where the help of your zodiac sign comes in.

Although your Sun Sign—the zodiac sign you most likely refer to yourself as based on your birthday—is just a small part of your astrology birth chart, it can still lend a helping hand when it comes to figuring out and planning ideal days suited to your personality. For example, a fire sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) would prefer a V-Day filled with passion, creativity, and competitiveness, while an earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) will enjoy a more practical holiday celebration. No two zodiac signs are the same, and Valentine’s Day dates shouldn’t be, either.

If you’re wondering what your ideal Valentine’s Day date will be this year, wonder no more. Below are perfect ways to spend the mushy mid-winter holiday this year—single or coupled—based on your Sun Sign. Keep on reading to find out what your ideal Valentine’s Day date is, according to your zodiac sign.

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Ideal Valentine’s Day Dates, According to Zodiac Sign:

1. Aries (March 21-April 19)

Single: As a fire sign and the very first sign of the zodiac, you love to be #1 in all areas of life. This Valentine’s Day, grab a couple of your friends, and head to the newest spot in town—whether that be a bar, club, lounge, or restaurant. If you’d prefer to stay in, grab some takeout from a hot new restaurant for you and your single friends.

Coupled: The bolder, the better! Do something out of the ordinary this Valentine’s Day—maybe you finally go skydiving, or you and your S.O head to a sports game to cheer on your fave team. If you’re in the mood for something physical, get in a good sweat sesh together before you head in for the night via a classic gym workout, run, or nature hike. Once you’re home, rinse off in the shower together, and let the steamy part of the evening commence.

2. Taurus (April 20-May 20)

Single: As a Taurus, you appreciate the finer things in life, and always take an opportunity to indulge. Treat yourself to a spa day at-home or wellness center. Complete the day with a nice glass of rosé and some decadent appetizers (think: charcuterie board complete with soft cheeses, dates, honey, figs, soppressata, etc.) before finishing the night off with some chocolate covered strawberries.

Coupled: You love to stop and smell the roses, which is why an intimate night-in with your lover is perfect for you. Set up the evening with a bouquet of fresh flowers, decadent dessert, and a nice bottle of wine for the two of you. Cozy up on the couch and binge your favorite show or check out a new movie. This is the perfect time to really just be together as a couple, and take each other and the moment in.

3. Gemini (May 21-June 20)

Single: You love to be spontaneous, so this Valentine’s Day, go wherever your heart takes you! Don’t make definite plans; give yourself the freedom to do what you want on a whim. If you want to spend the day with some friends, make a loose, flexible plan that can be changed accordingly. There are no rules for you to follow, so enjoy the day on your own terms!

Coupled: Get in touch with your playful side by heading to a comedy club or karaoke bar with your S.O. The lively atmosphere will cater to your desire to communicate with others and make new friends, and you’ll get to make some awesome new memories with your sweetheart.

4. Cancer (June 21-July 22)

Single: You’re naturally empathetic and are always there for your friends and family, so connecting with loved ones is the perfect way for you to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Catch up with those closest to you in your life over a nice meal. You can make reservations at a nice restaurant, or choose to cook for them at home.

Coupled: Since Cancers are most content when they’re caring for others rather than being cared for, an intimate night at home with your partner is ideal for you this Valentine’s Day. Show your appreciation for your partner by whipping up a nice meal or by cooking a new recipe together. Light some candles and put on some classical music in the background to really set the mood. After dinner, take to your couch or bed to snuggle up close and nourish your connection.

5. Leo (July 23-August 22)

Single: Leos are known for their over-the-top nature and constant search of the spotlight, which is why this year, you should celebrate yourself! Treat yo’ self to something sweet. Whether it be a new outfit, a spa day, or even a nice dinner complete with a dozen roses and a heart-shaped box of chocolates. Spoil yourself however you see fit!

Coupled: You’re fiery and passionate to begin with, so take things up a notch in the romance department. Buy some new lingerie or toys for the bedroom, spread rose petals on the bed, grab a nice bottle of bubbly along with an ice bucket and Champagne glasses, and a platter of chocolate covered strawberries. Once everything is set up, you can lock yourself and your S.O in the bedroom for the rest of the day.

6. Virgo (August 23-September 22)

Single: As a Virgo, you don’t mind routine and can find pleasure from the simple things, and one of the places where you draw the most pleasure from is through self-improvement. Tap into your naturally diligent and hardworking nature by finding an activity that will satisfy you mentally and physically. It may be through a hot yoga class, reading a self-help book, or streaming a guided meditation. Finish the night off with a little treat like a cocktail made from fresh ingredients, or a sweet dessert.

Coupled: As an earth sign, Virgos feel their best when they feel grounded and connected to the energy of the universe. This feeling also makes it easier for them to relinquish control—something that doesn’t come naturally or easily to the pragmatic zodiac sign. Start off V-Day by meditating with your S.O, followed by some journaling, then head out for an old-school romantic evening to cater to your pragmatic views on the mushy mid-winter holiday. Don’t be afraid to let your S.O do some of the planning, either; you’ll be surprised at how nice it feels to let go and leave the planning to someone else for once.

7. Libra (September 23-October 22)

Single: Remember those Valentine’s Day cards you’d pass out in elementary school? It’s time to whip them out again! Libras aim to have peace and harmony in all their relationships, so let the important people in your life know how much you care by giving them a cute, old-school card. Do this to kick off the evening, then host a fabulous get-together at your own home. The intimate atmosphere will allow you to connect on a deeper level and really nourish the relationships that matter to you.

Coupled: Intimacy is the way to go for you, and a romantic night at home will meet all of your needs for the ideal Valentine’s Day. Decorate the house and set the table with some fresh flowers and candles, get dressed up, and enjoy a three-course meal together. Being in the comfort of a place where you feel safe and it’s just the two of you will make it easier to open up and connect on a deeper level. You’ll get all the romance promised on V-Day, while nourishing and deepening the connection between you and your partner.

8. Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

Single: Being single on Valentine’s Day might bum you out if you feel stifled in your expression for passion and satisfying your desires, but take the opportunity to reconnect with and show yourself some love. You don’t need a partner to satisfy your cravings and fantasies, you can do it all on your own.

Coupled: Connecting emotionally and physically is the perfect way for a Scorpio to spend Valentine’s Day if they’re coupled up. Start the evening off with some light food and drinks; take the time to really talk and connect on an emotional level, then head to the bedroom to connect on an intimate level physically. Use this as an opportunity to try out new role-playing and act out your fantasies. Spicing things up in the bedroom is a must to finish out the evening strong.

9. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

Single: You’re open-minded and adventurous, so head out and meet new people on Valentine’s Day! Be open to new experiences and learning about others. Your ability to naturally converse with anyone and everyone on top of your friendly nature is sure to make the night a success.

Coupled: Sagittarius love to explore the world and learn about different people and cultures, so satisfy your wanderlust by going on a short romantic getaway someplace you and your S.O have never been before, or watch a documentary about a place or culture you’re both interested in while eating a new tasty and exotic meal you’ve never tried before.

10. Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

Single: Despite the fact that you’re notoriously known for your rigidity and controlling tendencies, there are ways you can treat yourself and indulge this Valentine’s Day that won’t go against your nature completely. Take this opportunity to break up your normal routines and focus on other areas that are important to you, preferably those that sometimes get neglected or fall to the bottom of your to-do list. You can do anything from finishing up a project around the house, honing in on perfecting a skill, or writing out a plan to achieve your long-term goals. You can also cater your earth sign by getting in touch with nature. It’s the perfect way to treat yourself and show yourself some love without being too much.

Coupled: Because of your no-nonsense nature, a more traditional V-Day is the way to go for you. Capricorns don’t like over-the-top displays of affection and believe in honoring their loved ones every single day, so opting for a nice homemade meal with your S.O will work well. Don’t be afraid to use some aphrodisiacs to help loosen you up a bit.

11. Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

Single: Aquarius are known as the “humanitarian” sign of the zodiac, so helping others out is the way to go for you. You can head to a local soup kitchen or homeless shelter, drop off baked goods or canned food to a place in need, or even treat some of the closest people in your life to a night out. Helping others will be the most rewarding way for you to spend V-Day, and will leave you feeling elated and satisfied.

Coupled: As an Aquarius, you love to stand out from the crowd and are shamelessly revolutionary, so the traditional Valentine’s Day is definitely not going to suit you. Go against the status quo by hitting up a wine and paint night or taking a cooking class with your S.O and replicating that meal at home. You can also level up your mixology skills and whip up some fun Valentine’s Day themed cocktails for both of you. Although you’re pretty anti-Valentine’s Day, you can still celebrate your romance in your own way, on your own terms.

12. Pisces (February 19-March 20)

Single: Pisces are known to be creative dreamers and deep thinkers and feelers, so any activity that channels those things is ideal. Check out a local band with your BFF’s, hit up an art gallery or museum, or check out a music, art, or pottery class to get in touch with your creative side. If you want to get in touch with your innermost feelings and reach into your subconscious thought, try streaming a guided meditation.

Coupled: The Pisces sign is two fish swimming in opposite directions to represent the constant divide they feel between fantasy and reality. On Valentine’s Day, give yourself permission to get lost completely in another world with your partner. See a play, ballet, or musical at your local theater, or watch a highly critically-acclaimed movie. These activities are a great opportunity for you to hone in on your natural ability to seemingly reach beyond what is tangible, and be absorbed by a fantastical world.