What To Try in the Bedroom, According to Your Zodiac Sign

It’s no secret that we can occasionally get stuck in routines and find ourselves feeling a bit meh about life. But the one place we should never feel that way in? The bedroom. If you’re currently experiencing this, it might be time to turn to some celestial guidance and use your zodiac sign to point you towards new and steamy bedroom adventures.

Your entire astrology birth chart can give you insight into your behavioral patterns, sense of self, identity, and personality traits. And all of that can point you to the perfect way to derive more pleasure during intimacy. For the sake of this article, we’re going by sun sign—aka the zodiac sign you refer to yourself as based on your birthday.

Keep on reading to learn what you should try next in the bedroom, according to your zodiac sign, and get ready to experience the kind of pleasure that’s out-of-this-world, written in the stars.

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What To Try in the Bedroom, According to Your Zodiac Sign:

1. Aries (March 21-April 19): Spontaneous quickie

As the first sign of the zodiac, it’s unsurprising that Aries are recognized as trailblazers. They’re bold, ambitious, and love to be number one. If you’re an Aries, you might also be extremely direct, which correlates to the fire sign in you, and all of these things should be capitalized on in the bedroom.

Use one of these tried-and-true quickie sex positions, and have a spontaneous quickie. It’ll be bold, surprising, and new—everything that appeals to you, Aries. Tell your partner that you want one, or initiate one yourself. This will be the perfect way to tap into your inner spiciness.

2. Taurus (April 20-May 20): Full body massage

Taurus, we know you love nothing more than to just sit back, relax, and stop and smell the roses. Your contentment can sometimes be a point of envy or viewed as laziness, but you know better. Heat things up in the bedroom with your partner by giving each other a sexy full body massage. Light some candles, put on some mood-setting music, grab some oil, and get to work. This will be incredibly relaxing and therapeutic for a Taurus, and definitely get them in the mood to indulge in some pleasure.

3. Gemini (May 21-June 20): Try a new position

Geminis are beloved for their sociable, playful, and occasionally erratic nature, and the fact that they’re always on the go. If you’re a Gemini, switching things up at the drop of a dime is probably second nature to you.

Trying out a new position will appeal to your playful nature and insatiable curiosity. There are tons of positions out there you can explore and experiment with. Talk to your partner ahead of time about anything you might want to explore or, if you both trust and are comfortable with each other, spontaneously switch it up to something new while you’re in the middle of it.

4. Cancer (June 21-July 22): Enlist the help of aphrodisiacs

Water sign Cancer is one of the most intuitive and empathetic signs of the zodiac. They’re natural caretakers, and have no trouble getting in touch with their innermost feelings, which is why enlisting the help of some aphrodisiacs is one of the best ways for them to spice things up in the bedroom.

Before you get going, take some time to relax and unwind with some delicious food and/or drinks with your S.O before taking it to the bedroom. Indulge in something you both love or that you shared together on a previous romantic evening. This will help spark pleasurable memories, tantalize your senses, and increase desire.

5. Leo (July 23-August 22): Focus on foreplay

This fire sign has an equally fiery personality to match. Leos are passionate, dramatic, and absolutely love the spotlight. They have no problem basking in themselves and celebrating any occasion.

If you’re a Leo, focusing on foreplay will appeal to your passionate side and need for attention. Take things slow during this time—allow your partner to please you and vice versa. This will also give you a chance to get to know each other even more and really increase desire and ignite some passion.

6. Virgo (August 23-September 22): Embrace the kink

There’s no denying that Virgos tend to be practical, logical, and a bit perfectionistic. Consistency is key to them, and they have no problem paying attention to detail (in fact, they quite enjoy it). But don’t let any of that fool you—Virgos have no trouble getting their hands dirty, which is why embracing some kink is the perfect way to heat things up in the bedroom for a Virgo.

Talk to your partner about any kinks you’d like to explore and vice versa. Hear each other out, and be willing to come to a compromise. If this is your first time experimenting, start slow, and be sure to create a safe word you can both use in case one of you ever gets uncomfortable.

7. Libra (September 23-October 22): Visualization

In case you haven’t heard, you can use meditation to increase more pleasure in the bedroom, and the visualization technique is the perfect way for a Libra to heat things up, since it will awaken all of their senses and desires. Plus, equilibrium is essential to a Libra, and meditation will help them feel more grounded and balanced.

To get started, get comfortable and close your eyes, then think about a fantasy or turn-on. Imagine yourself there and really see it in your mind—imagine what the room would smell like, any flavors your might taste, and any sounds you might hear. Feel everything in your body, and allow desire to flow through it freely and fully; continue for as long as you like, then slowly open your eyes and bring yourself back to reality. Then, tell your partner what you just experienced, and act it out together in the bedroom.

8. Scorpio (October 23-November 21): Back to basics

Scorpios are born to live a life of emotional extremes. One minute they can come across as fearful, and the next they’ll be extremely passionate, connected, and in-tune with themselves and others. Nevertheless, their mysterious aura is undeniably alluring.

Although you probably love to go all-out in the bedroom, it’s time to get back to basics, Scorpio. This will allow you to truly connect in a deeply intimate way, which will be extremely satisfying for you. Be sure to take things slow and really savor each other.

9. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21): Explore fetishes

As a Sagittarius, you have an intense desire to study the world’s people and cultures, and what better way to satisfy that need for exploration than diving into and exploring the sexy world of fetishes?

Talk to your partner about fetishes and any you’d both like to explore; communicating openly is the first step to diving into this whole new world. Keep the discussion open, honest, and positive; be willing to come to a compromise. From there, make a plan together and start slow, then get to work.

10. Capricorn (December 22-January 19): Schedule it

Capricorns are known as the “grandfather” of the zodiac thanks to their no-nonsense attitude and ability to fix almost any situation. They often come across as extremely serious creatures and can sometimes be viewed as controlling. However, underneath that hard exterior, they’re extremely ambitious, independent, and resourceful.

Scheduling intimacy is one of the best ways to heat things up for a Capricorn while appealing to their no-nonsense nature. Scheduling it in advance will get them excited for what’s to come—they’ll spend time thinking about it in the lead up to it, and map out different things they could try and scenarios they could explore. Once it comes time to meet in the bedroom, they’ll most certainly deliver for the both of you.

11. Aquarius (January 20-February 18): Use toys

Aquarius is the zodiac sign with a rebellious streak; they’re shamelessly revolutionary and innovative in everything they do. Quite simply? They’re one of a kind, and they know and wear it proudly.

Heat things up in the bedroom by incorporating the use of sex toys. There are numerous toys out there, so don’t be afraid to go on a little scavenger hunt and find something you and your partner want to try. Regardless of what you decide to use, it’s always important to talk to your partner about it ahead of time. Remember: Security and comfort is key in the bedroom.

12. Pisces (February 19-March 20): Role play

If you’re a Pisces, you have a natural ability to slip in and out of personas, which makes role playing the perfect way to heat things up for you. This will also allow you to get in touch with your creative side and act out scenarios from your whimsical imagination.

Talk to your partner beforehand about what you’d like to act out; discuss any ideas that they may have as well. Like everything in the bedroom, it’s imperative that both of you feel safe and comfortable, so be flexible and willing to compromise if need be. Don’t be afraid to start slow—you can always work your way up and act out all of your fantasy eventually.